Thursday, March 05, 2009

Backbiting

Backbiting or the "took pui jek" from the Islam perspective:

Backbiting is one of the meanest manners and most serious crimes and sins. God likens the backbiter to the one who eats the flesh of the dead.
I say, it's worse that eating the flesh of the dead. It's eating me alive! In the corporate world, backbiters survive by backbiting others. What I hated most about these backbiters is that they tend to catch the best moment when you're not around and tells the whole world about your incompetence.

Why can't you tell it in front of me like a man?!!! Why can't you complain about me when I'm around? Why wait until I'm away? Obviously, you backbiters have an agenda behind your back. And I need not know why. No wonder my back was aching today.

But before you go around and complain, do give it a thought as to wouldn't you in the first place come and approach me if you have a problem. Do you really have to wait until I'm not around to be telling me that I'm not up to mark? If you have to, then I'm glad you did. At least I know that you guys weren't so virtuous after all.

And I thought : "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should say [something] good, or he should keep silent." [Bukhari, Muslim, Ahmad, Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah] Well I guess people do forget. Therefore, I strongly believe that if I have done nothing wrong, I have nothing to fear. And I don't give a damn. Sorry if my attitude towards backbiters are a little harsh but I think they sincerely deserved it!

Remember this my friend...
"The backbiter will not be forgiven by Allah until his [backbited] companion forgives him."

18 comments:

Edi神 said...

Allah is not GOD! So dont worry!

breadpitt said...

aww eiling.... i understand how u feel ..because...ive also been through ......

Anonymous said...

As you are popular, it is not a surprise that some people are jealous of you.

Anonymous said...

As you are popular, it is not a surprise that some people are jealous of you.

VIZAVI said...

Backbiting: These people are Ass Hole Fuckers!!!

Myhorng said...

AllahMak

KY said...

chill chill we go makan ok

-eiling- said...

edi: yeah. sorry I forgot.

Breadpitt: it felt awful right?

Anon: Well, that is not a good reason!

Vizavi: wow, that was harsh!

Horng: haha..

KY: Okok

WeiMei said...

Ya.. pretty girl... go makan makan n shopping shopping...

firefly said...

Keep cool, you will add more wrinkles to your pretty face!

Anonymous said...

It's a cruel cruel world out there. These people need that to survive AND YOU DON'T...don't worry be happy..try ok.no point to stoop as low as these dogs. You enjoy your weekend.

foongpc said...

Wow! Sound so angry today! If they like to bite your back, maybe you should bite their heads off : )

-eiling- said...

Wei mei: You belanja ar?

Firefly: Haha... Don't worry..not yet.

Anon: I just need a venue to vent my anger.

Foongpc: I won't bite their heads off. Dirty my teeth only! Ceh...

Anonymous said...

~ probably ur karma for doing the same and your loved one is a big backstabber also ~ payback is a bitch ~ live with it ~

suituapui said...

Lots of people like that around! A dime a dozen! Best ignored! They are jealous cause they do not measure up to you, yet they're not willing to put in any effort to work at improving themsleves. Just sit there and yak...yak...yak!!!

-eiling- said...

Anon: Thank you for your comment although I am not very sure what you're trying to tell me. Looks like you've got lots of hatred in you. Being anonymous to write such comments doesn't make you any "holier than thou".

STP: That's true. Like a carpenter who always blame its tools!

WeiMei said...

i belanja tml morning k.. hehehe

Khairil said...

Khairil wuz ere ;P

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